Re: Suhaag Raat Hai
^ hahaha 
Yeah getting back to ur question.. Since you’ve already had ur fun, i suggest letting her take a bit of control for that first time. If she feels comfortable, go for it, if she resists, be respectful of her shyness and don’t rush it. Do not be like some guys who get so frustrated that they don’t care about her feelings and enjoyment and just do it to get it over with. I’ve heard several instances of this happening, the guy will literally force it the first few times. :no:
Much of Pakistani society conditions women to be “pure” i.e., keeping them separate from boys in school, no formal sex education other than pornography or friends or hearsay (that I know of anyway).. and the second they get married they’re expected to have sex and enjoy it. Not to mention if a woman appears to enjoy anything or look forward to it, the guy MIGHT assume she’s had experience before. Its really wrong and twisted but unfortunately true..