Re: Suggestions required
How about doing a course on humility and getting over your uppity complex!!! Obviously there are places for stuff you want her to do in Isb but that you think they are not posh and snobby enough. WTH man! Get a life and learn to look at people who have nothing and still live happy fulfilled lives. Get her to go help at an Eidhi centre or something and learn a thing or two from the women in there instead of sitting there thinking now your not earning your millions life is not worth living anymore. Sorry my post sounds rude but it comes from observing people who have the earth compared to some people, still did nothing but complain and now told they are going to die and regret their whole lives cus they cant take anything with them to their graves except their words and actions towards their creator and fellow humans and have nothing to show for it. Soend your days preparing to meet your creator and you will never ever be short of things to do. Trust me as I am one of those ppl doing exactly that. Im 33 possible many years younger to your mum and yet a few months back I could have died from Cancer. Alhumdulilah I survived but being so close to death makes you realise a lot of things and I now live to warn ppl that life is short. pls do something right now to show your gratitude to Allah for everything he gave you and not your neighbour.
We need to hear from people like you more often because most of us take everything for granted.
However, I don’t see why anyone would want anything but the best for their own mother. I, for one wouldn’t be happy with sending my mother to a place which had issues with cleanliness.