Re: Suggestions required…
Blow their minds away and tell them you prefer women! 
On a serious note…
That’s just disgusting behaviour! Lol at being allowed to getting a divorce later! Jokers!
Okay what country do you live in and what country does your cousin live in? I’m asking this for a reason e.g. are they forcing you to go to Pakistan to marry him etc?
To force anyone into marriage is not allowed under any religious or polictical law so don’t remain quiet about this and speak up! Knowing desi people they’ll eventually get over it by the time your 3rd kid comes.