wow, i agree with you for once. but why do women have to pick the 3 on your list whereas, men are able to do all. beacause people dont like “career women”. women have to fight for it. and because oh God forbid they want a career too, they become too old for all you young men.
also, if a guy doesnt get married till 45…he still gets a 22 yr old somewhere in this world. that is why the definitions differ. so the problem is with our double standard not what the two definitions are.
who says women who like a career and being independent don’t like making a family? it’s just that they are rarely allowed to have both the way they want.