Lusi
May 5, 2011, 11:06am
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Re: stupid old me!
Is it normal to feel jealous or annoyed at your spouses closeness or his banter with his sister/|?
Hes always chatting to her, shes his only and younger sister, but i would prefer he didnt have that with her, and only with me..i know it sounds mad, but its a feeling i have. he doesnt talk to me with the same affection in front of others, but with her, he would laugh and joke around, it gets on my nerves. i understand that most husbands dont go around showing affection to their wives infront of others-such as massaging her, giving her a kiss( forehead?) or just holding her hand, but they can show affection to their siblings?
what annoys me most if i say i want to go get icecream/clothes/go out whatever- he will say `ok in 10 mins/ok in 1 hour/ not now, later/after this match/etc etc
if his sis says same thing- he pretty much gets up there and then…( ok so he needs to be pushed, but if she pushes him he doesnt respond in the same way as he would if i push him)
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
he needs to only talk to me…wish i could stop him from being so cosey with her and his mother…:*
Do you want your future DIL doing all this to you or your daughter. Or are you going to be ok if your bhabhi makes sure, your bro doesnt talks to you, is extremely reserved with you, and never gets anything for you?
Honestly, you are creating problems for your own self.