Let’s say you love someone a reallllll LOTTTTTTTT …
parents…siblings…friends…husband…wife etc etc…
But you still end up doing stuff that hurts them 
does it mean you don’t love them enough 
?
Re: stuff tht hurts others....
what type of pain is it that you're talking about?
if the person is taking actual steps to improve himself/herself so he/she doesn't hurt others again in a similar way then i think it is love definitely b/c all efforts are made for the sake of the relationship.
don't know how long the hurt can be endured over and over again until the person receiving the pain will become numb to it and say bye......
Re: stuff tht hurts others....
does it mean you don't love them enough :( ?
No. It just means you're a little weak in willpower.
Re: stuff tht hurts others....
no that just means you are careless. We tend to hurt people with out even knowing what harm it can do.