Sometimes I become very stubborn.like someone has done something wrong and saying sorry but I won’t let go the issue :(And (sometimes)I will make a big issue 
and won’t Forgive the person,no matter how sorry the other person is .And after when issue is solved I always feel guilty that I shouldn’t have done that.may be coz after issue is solved I’m clame that’s why..How can I change this habit?
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yes I know about this habit of yours 
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you will make a perfect traditional **"F-16 MIL"**** :D**
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aap mein kya kami hai usse realize karna sabse pehla step hota hai
but realizing is never enough.,.you have to have the willpower to bring the change in yourself...because changing urself is never easy... isse zyada advice deina mushkil hai bas itna hi kahungi k harr time conscious rehna parrta hai ...harr time apne aap se puuchna parrta hai am i behaving the way i want to or am I behaving the way my nature is? do I like how i am behaving with this person even after they are saying sorry.,..you have to be on ur toes all the time with respect to the quality of urself that u dont like in order to bring about the change
problem yeh hai k we realize hum mein kharaabi kya hai par jab time aata hai we forget about the kharaabi and instead the emotion of anger or whatever washes over us making us behave the way we habitually behave...the only way to make sure that doesnt happen is if you're being self critical all the time, make sure u dont let the emotion interfere and make u behave how u habitually do....and that is difficult
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you will make a perfect traditional **"F-16 MIL"**** :D**
F-16 MIL....yeh tou mujhe kisi tayyaray ka naam lag raha hai. lol
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haN na!..laRaakoo saasu maaN [MIL=Mother-in-Law] 
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ya lol.
F-16 MIL
(firebomb with 16 years of experience mother in law) haha
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..Dekha phir tum laraee start kar rahi ho 
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^ tumhe kkf ne F16-MIL kis liye diya hai....us ko istamaal karo diamond321 ke khilaaf. :p
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aap mein kya kami hai usse realize karna sabse pehla step hota haibut realizing is never enough.,.you have to have the willpower to bring the change in yourself...because changing urself is never easy... isse zyada advice deina mushkil hai bas itna hi kahungi k harr time conscious rehna parrta hai ...harr time apne aap se puuchna parrta hai am i behaving the way i want to or am I behaving the way my nature is? do I like how i am behaving with this person even after they are saying sorry.,..you have to be on ur toes all the time with respect to the quality of urself that u dont like in order to bring about the changeproblem yeh hai k we realize hum mein kharaabi kya hai par jab time aata hai we forget about the kharaabi and instead the emotion of anger or whatever washes over us making us behave the way we habitually behave...the only way to make sure that doesnt happen is if you're being self critical all the time, make sure u dont let the emotion interfere and make u behave how u habitually do....and that is difficult
Yes ,I'm totally agree with you..Mai Hamesha yehi sochti hoo ke mujh Mai kharabi hai like when I was making this thread ..but jab time ata hai muje apna app sahi aur baki sab ghalAt lagte hain..I want to be bigger person and want to forgive everyone even before they say sorry.Insha Allah I will start working on this :)
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you should drink water and let see if your stubborness go down..:@:
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Look at the bigger picture; you know fully well you won't like your behaviour in the future, so don't behave that way.
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Sometimes I become very stubborn.like someone has done something wrong and saying sorry but I won't let go the issue :(And (sometimes)I will make a big issue :( and won't Forgive the person,no matter how sorry the other person is .And after when issue is solved I always feel guilty that I shouldn't have done that.may be coz after issue is solved I'm clame that's why..How can I change this habit?
why to change ? just enjoy yourself :)
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^ That is not good advise at all. What about all the people that get hurt due to the stubborness?
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I'm stubborn, but not to THAT extent. I think it's petty to hold grudges for too long, I sometimes even forget that I'm angry/not supposed ot be talking to the person.
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^ That is not good advise at all. What about all the people that get hurt due to the stubborness?
Yes...!!.yesterday my friend told me how much she was when I wasnt listening any thing and was stick to my point that you did this you did that ..that's why I made this thread :(