Re: struggling between morality
There are very basic, and universal values which we all ascribe to. Such values are inherent and obvious to all, as well as logical. Such values permeate the core of most religions as well. This makes sense, since as creations of the all mighty we were endowed with same values that were dictated in our holy books, for us the Koran.
My belief is that if what you are hearing contradicts this core value system we all have, its probably not the right interpretation. For example, we all know instinctively that murder of innocents is illegal. So if you hear a Mullah or a self professed Islamic theologian trying to justify it in any way, and you are still not comfortable with it, as it goes against our instinct, its probably not valid or in concordance with the precepts of Islam.