I agree. But to clarify my earlier comment, merely being “khamosh” in all instances of adveristy is not a sign of strength. It offends me to see a woman playing the “I am misqeen” card and then doing the whole “woe is me” bit.
Sab’r means knowing when to be quiet, but also when to speak out and stand up for herself and her family.
But, like most other issues, each person has their own persective - there is no universal right answer.