i have noticed that in a space of few days some over the top {O.T.T} thread’s have been opened, firstly in the lifestyles ~ the health and relationship forum has had ppl opening thread’s on and discussing the issues of 1} virginity 2}having bath together and in the Culture forum a thread on 3}having ur jeeja ji’s kids was opened quite recently.
i 'm finding it difficult to explain wat i want to say but here goes: discussing topics of such nature FREELY is not the correct way to go about it.. kya hum sab itne gir gayee hain kai behrounai-mulk mein parvarish paaa kar maghrabi lougoun ki tarhaa sochana aur aun ki tarha bateein karna shuru kar diya hai.
this is way toooooo strong, there r certain matters which should be discussed behind closed doors for example the issue of having bath together should be discussed by a husband and wife and no 3rd party.. wat is the need to ask other ppl’s opinion over this… itna khulaa houna bee theek naheen hai. OK this is a discussion board but some ppl really need to start thinking clearly b4 starting a discussion on any topic which crop’s up in their mind, ppl shouldn’t take topics to the extreme.
we have to remember that the majority of members on board r muslims and our religion teaches sharam and heyaaa and such posts counter that sharam and heyaa.
this is how i have felt seeing such topics being discussed openly, u guys r all samajdaar ppl and r more intellectually sound than moi, so u guys don’t need some 1 like me to remind u of the nature of discussions that should and shouldn’t be carried out.
mods/admin plz look into this query of mine with care!
jazakallah kheir
Re: strictly mod/admin reply required!!!!
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*Originally posted by #let uz chat#: *
u guys r all samajdaar ppl and r more intellectually sound than moi, so u guys don't need some 1 like me to remind u of the nature of discussions that should and shouldn't be carried out.
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For once you are right.
yeh and wat is going to be done about such posts?
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....in the Culture forum a thread on 3}having ur jeeja ji's kids was opened quite recently.
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Here's a very simple solution: if you have a problem with me opening any types of threads, then discuss it with me directly. If you have a problem with people opening such seemingly shameless threads, (at least what counts as "shameless" in your opinion), then bring it up with ME DIRECTLY. Maybe i should open up a dozen threads and post pictures about bollywood actors/actresses; i can post pics of Salman Khan in biceps-baring shirts and tight leather pants - i guess that would be oh-so-sharmeeli of me. Yes that will be my next step today.
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kya hum sab itne gir gayee hain kai behrounai-mulk mein parvarish paaa kar maghrabi lougoun ki tarhaa sochana aur aun ki tarha bateein karna shuru kar diya hai
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Please, don't even begin to imply that i think like "maghrabi lougoun ki tarhaa". ONLY Allah knows what i think like. You are not my judge, jury and executioner so please NEVER judge what group of people i think like. You can leave the judging up to Allah - He Who is closer than a person's jugular vein, is more than Capable of Judging me. i don't need any mortal to tell me what's shameless and what's not.
Don't judge me, you don't know me, you don't have that right. Period. i hope i make my message loud and clear, Insha'Allah.
still waiting for a resposne mods/admin wat will be done about such posts?