Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

I’m starting the Strictly for Men thread series where I would like to get opinions ONLY from the men on this site. Ladies, you are welcome to read, but please do NOT post any replies as I’m not interested in what you have to say on these particular topics.

So guys, are you ok with marrying a girl who has had a prior relationship (BF etc)?

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

yeah good question.

It depends if she had sex tbqh.

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

I'm assuming the girl didn't have any physical relationships (or atleast so she claims!)

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

Whatcha gonna do?

yes, what's wrong with that...

i believe what is done has done and cannot be undone, so instead on crying on split milk, lets move on... I'll appreciate if girl will tell me that she had an affair and they broke up etc etc,

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

& if she is divorced???

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

^Same rule applies, if she is divorced so be it... that is past...

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

Question is, how the f'k would you know if she had any past relationships and whether or not they involved some monkey-style kung fu? If you have to rely on her words, then it doesn't make any difference - she wont tell you anyway.

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ye agree wid pssquared! What he gonna do! LOL

Listen boii - all these guy opinion are not going to matter anyways because you need more story / details from us girls on WHY THE HECK A GIRL would even CONSIDER you AFTER having been with someone so special to her - for whom she lost her virginity to. So change your title - and say GIRLS tell me why you would want to consider "us" boyz after you have been wid someone so dear to you?

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

^ NJM your post reeks of feminism :emmy:

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

Boiii. You gotta outline if your scenario is in islamic i.e muslim perspective or non muslim hence non islamic.

cos being muslim and non muslim would have two different scenarios and outcomes.

iz not!

boii is just being selfish - on why HE should consider a woman with a past.

Boii does not realize - a woman with a past - might be a better person in the future cause of all the mistakes she may have made.

DISCLAIMER: (take these words wid a pinch of salt. i really don’t think i wholeheartedly support my own words up there - lol - sovvy)

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

Its not about being selfish, its about being a man and about having an opinion.

You are not a man, and hence your opinion doesn’t count.

Make yourself useful - go make your man a sammich :emmy:

(As for not supporting your own words, I know the feeling very well! Lol)

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

From religious perspective . Pre- Marital relationships are not allowed in Islam.
Abhi Kar low jo karna hay. JUb qiamat main chitar parhain gay to pata chalay ga , bachoo.

LOL.
So true.

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

give her 100 lashes then marry her.

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

^so same goes for the guy too?

like there should be some lashes reserved for men too - rt?

although my heart would stop while lashing anyone up :(

hehhehehe

sorry wrong thread.

The OP has asked specifically about the girl having pre martial sex.

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

(A divorced girl and a girl with a bf are different things)

Kay I'm leaving!

Re: Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage

^she's right.

yea_boii, i'm sorry, but you can't have a thread that says "no women allowed" and actually expect that to happen :P