Stressed!

Missymiss · October 24, 2016, 6:17pm

Re: Stressed!

your husband needs to step up and take a stand. 3 years is a long time and all of the expectations are set so it ll be difficult to change overnight.

Talk to your husband in a way that he understands that there are two families living in the house, not just one. and they need to define their limits and their interactions.

my mother is exactly the same and my wife is also facing the same issues. the problem for me is to balance both and i cannot keep up. its like taking off a bandage. it hurts but you have to rip it off - so talk to your husband and see how he feels about the whole arrangement.

Best would be to find a way to move out or away. ask your husband to switch jobs (if possible) to a different city. or get a bigger house so at least you can have your own portion or something.

I am still trying to figure out how to handle my situation without letting my wife take the blame for it. i am ready to handle the dirt that will come my way.

May Allah pak help us both and if you find a solution do let me know as well!