Nadz. one piece of advice. sorry "khawateen for stealing it from u but i really liked it when u told some1 this. so i am giving reference to khawateen n her bro as this was her post
"wehn u move to ur new house with in laws u r going to make and change opinions bout them every day. remember u r new they would be doing the same bout u. these r ur new family n u'll b spending rest of ur life with them. if u want respect and love u'll have to give them the same respect and love." ( i think this was she had posted i cant find the post so i just recalled my memory)
ppl will respect u if u give respect. remember ur in laws want love and respect and if u cant give that then there's no point in ahving all the wonderful degrees u have. u are "judged" by your attitude, behavoir and nature and not by your degrees. I know u r getting very nervous as ny gal gets but try putting that energy towards something positive and u'll achieve wonders. u proly havent met ur MIL in a while and are scared. i'm sure once u meet her u'll laf n tell us all tat she's the most wonderful woman on this planet. IA AND AMEEN SUMMA AMEEN.
thank you...i guess you are right. yeah i havent seen her for 7 years, hardly ever speak to her on the phone. however it is weird, shes not like my other aunts who i freely chat to, in fact when im on the phone to her my mind is blank...i cant think of any words to say to her after salam ji aap kaisi hai....i get all nervous and push the phone onto someone else...shes very uncomfy