Re: Strategies to Qaboofy your husband
There is no harm in qaboofying the husband if the intention is to save the marriage. As I mentioned in the original post, I had seen one forced marriage and the guy was not happy with the marriage as he wanted to marry somewhere else. The wife tried her best with her good nature and behaviour with the husband as well as the in-laws that the husband finally accepted her as wife.
Besdies, recently I heard my friend’s husband getting involved in his colleague and started an affair (with an illegitimate physical relationship) that my friend had to file for the Khula. She could have saved the marriage if she worked to “qaboofy” her husband immediately when she started witnessing the changes in her husbands behaviour. This could have been through giving more time, attention and love to the husband.
Why are we so qualified in taking things negatively?