Thats what gets me so frazzled.
It probably did take a lot of courage for them to tell me how they felt. However, if Im in a relationship…marriage…then havent they put me in an awkward spot? If Im happily married…why are they saying this to me now? What are they hoping I will do? Leave my husband? And if they really love me, dont they want to see me happy in my relationship?
It just opens up a can of worms no married person wants to deal with so better to just stop talking altogether.