Re: Strange problem …
I understand that is frustrating to see someone you care about do something which you believe is a mistake. That being said…there’s no need for you to “understand” this situation. Your friend is an adult. The consequences of her actions will not effect your life (other than having to listen to her whine about the situation). You are not her mother or father. As a friend who cares, you have shared your concerns with her. Now its upto her to decide how she wants to proceed. Always remember…you can not help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves.