Strange appeal...can anyone relate?...

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Lol me and one of my friends were discussing whether there is an appeal to the enemy as in a chick whos from the ‘enemy’…
Lol to put it in perspective hes a Greek guy and hes always had a fantasy of dealing with a nationalist Turk…it is the biggest opposite that can ever occur for him…
Now to degree i can relate…i had an incident where some girl got chatting to me…i asked her where she was from and she said she was from Tel Aviv…she had a really Jewish name and there was kind of an appeal to it…lol if she was a zionist i imagine it being even more appealing…
So just wondered whether anyone can actually relate or whether there is a psychological reasoning behind finding the enemy attractive…is it as simple as the forbidden fruit thing?..

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er...my friend is a Turk (cypriat) and she would rather slit her wrists than go for a Greek.

I like Sikh guys atm. But thats just cause some of them are F.I.T

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Did something happen when i was away cos i remember the last i checked there were three replies?...
Anyhow in terms of the appeal i think its the irony of the situation which makes it amusing...and in some ways a sense of achievement...
So Hitchki...it would be quite ironic if a greek were to actually get your Turkish cypriot friend if you get what i mean...
Lol just like doing a zionist would be quite ironic for a Palestinian i suppose or a Muslim dealing with some hardcore Hindu...

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^ well paki pride came up in here sayin if she ever saw a Jew she'd shoot one.. I think that's what it was...if ont the xact words, then the idea was there.. lol

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did she really? lolz

wel i think it is the case of wanting wat we cant have in this case the enemy

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Lol that PakiPride...shes a funny one but can be overly ignorant at times...

As for the subject at hand...There are two ways to look at it i reckon...i could be a point of degrading...this Indian guy at our uni dealt with a Paki girl and got her to wear a Pakistan cricket top...in his case it seems to be a hatred thing...

As for say my Greek friend its less hatred i reckon and more a case of amusement of the situation...just the idea that something like this shouldnt happen...so yeah naturally the supposed 'enemy' isnt something you should have so its a big boost if you get it i assume...so for a Muslim to deal with a Jewish girl who hates Muslims is a serious paradox so for the one that is sought it is quite appealing that someone who shouldnt like them does...

I can imagine the surprise and sense of achievement being similar to say if i was propositioned by Shakira lol...

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damnittttttt
my posts got deleted
lol wtf i wz jus sayin wat i think of jewz

now gettin back 2 me point...
naughty WTF did u see in that jew that u found appealin other thn her big ass nose**

am not bein racist this time ppl so CHILL n lets not 4get freedom of speech=)

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PakiPride...
Saying you would shoot a Jew if you saw one isnt really enacting freedom of speech or showing tolerance is it?...

But anyhow as for the issue at hand read what iv written...it wasnt a physcial thing as such more a conceptual one...when she spoke to me i thought it was just any normal girl...i just got a kick once i heard her name and found out she was from Tel Aviv...

And as for big ass noses...to be honest Pakis are hardly ones to talk when it comes to noses gone wrong lol...

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lol i got my reasons

okayyyy fine
sorry
i read it wrong
lol i mus hav coz i was wonderin wat u found attractive abt a jew
jews tend 2 hav big noses

but wat u tryin 2 say abt pakis shudnt talk abt big noses
i aint sure abt wat ur gettin at but i dun hav a big nose
so dun tell me i shudnt talk

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The country with the largest nose job rate (and rightly) is Iran. Pakistanis are also notoriously ridiculously proportioned in that arena, except most of them are too poor to afford the cosmetic surgery.

Israeli girls are arguably the fittest in the middle-east.

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i dunno why my post gt deleted, i said jews are people of the book and so shud be still be respected.

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PakiPride...
Im saying its quite ironic for a Paki to make fun of Jewish noses when Paki girls dont always do well nose wise...

And as for your reasons besides ignorance i cant possibly see what reasons you have?...please dont chat Palestine or anything like that please...

And as for me finding the Jewish girl fit...she was fit before i found out she was Jewish...the thread just suggests that being Jewish made her seem more attractive to me...

Hitchki...
Iranians are stunning. in my opinion...

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^ i can vouch for that.

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lol yea i noticed some pakiz got big noses too no doubt
am jus sayin that jews IN GENERAL ( my opinion) hav big noses an i only mentioned this coz u wz sayin u found a jew appealin LMAO omg it still cracks me up.....especially abt her jew name made u find her MORE "attractive"

so wat do u think im ignoring?
i sed that paki gyalz can hav dem big noses too
any1 can really
so where does my ignorance come from?
and where did pali ppl come up
i got nuthin against palizzzz
i got m8z who are pali....man those guys are buffff

anywayzzzz
i think by now u prob know that i aint fond of jews
i already listed me reasons y but they got deleted lol

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what about lebanese?

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paki pride dont you think the freedom of speech is just going southwards to downright racism?

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Naughty and Croquet. I am not disputing the attractiveness of either of those races. However (keeping all political and religious biases aside) Israeli girls are stunning (imo).

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^tsk of course,
i just would kill for lebanses skin, dont know what they do.

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they get vitamin D and plastic surgery

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Ok ppl , quit fighting and let’s get back to the topic.
Naughty By nature I can definitely relate to what you are talking about. During 9/11 I had so many military/non military guys asking me out that it was crazy. I get ask out a lot anyway but it was definitely a whole lot more during 9/11. Most ppl were nice but it was still not nice when you are walking down the street and all of a sudden 20 military ppl turn around and look at you. I know for most of them the only reason was that Muslims were getting more attention those days (and nothing wrong with that). But I can recall perverts showing not so nice attention. This one military guy looked at my friend and me as if he gets a chance he would eat us. & I had to tell one that he is 17 years older than me and he better not think about dating me.
In our school many relationships were going on between Indian and Pakistani students. I always thought Indian ppl like Pakistani girls & guys but soon I noticed that it was going on both ways. Pakistanis were equally to be blamed.
I remember this Indian pervert who always had this fantasy that if his people take over Pakistan he will conquer Pakistani girls. I told him kay Pakistani mard bhi choriean pahan kar nahi bathy LOL.
I can recall so many stories like that. I think you probably have the same fantasy as that Indian guy about jewish girl . LOL :D & your attraction definitely has something to deal with history where whenever you take over a country you take over some of their women too. Or maybe it is just "forbidden fruit. Either way, enjoy your crush.