Re: Straightforward question...straight from the heart!
ok TLK. I understand where you are coming from, but if rules are such which take away the space, then?
I mean, if there is nothing to be suspicious of (i.e., nothing is out of norm) even then would they prefer to be pro-active and keep looking for something which *might **come up **someday *. Wouldn't this create a feeling of being interfered/monitored all the time?
I agree with njgal, but different perceptions of same things result in such a situations, which bothers kids, and they start becoming rebellious.