What does it matter how frequent or infrequent? Crushes mean absolutely nothing 
Re: Story of My Life
malta, he has a GF..meaning its something that isn't too official you know? it's not like he has a fiance or even worse..a wife! do you really like this guy? are you really good friends with him? dont EVER let him know that you like him..IMO once a guy knows you're interested in him he'll play the hard-to-get kinda game..and they LOVE IT. so don't confess ur feelings to him until he does to you. until then..just look around, meet new people there are sooo many more guys out there!
Re: Story of My Life
They say it wouldn't be called a "crush" if it didn't hurt. But there are exceptions to popular quotations.......and once in a while a crush turns out to be mutual and can even blossom into a marriage:) Malta, its not only you. Many people (guys and girls) have been through this. It especially hurts when one has been led on by a crush for an ego boost.
Life is unpredictable, Malta. Anything can happen. In fact stranger things have happened, LOL! This girl is only his girlfriend, not a fiance or wife. Perhaps he will be in your destiny yet** (although never try to steal another woman's man, that's just messed up). Perhaps you will find someone **MUCH MUCH BETTER than this guy and you'll end up forgetting all about him. Perhaps this **BETTER GUY **will develop a liking for you. You never know.
Until then......the BEST thing to do is to continue developing yourself as a person. Stay active. Stay busy. Exercise, join a gym, work on a creative project, go traveling, read a good book, pursue a hobby, learn to dance, try cooking new recipes, take a class for fun...........In other words.......concentrate on YOU! Don't worry about getting any guy for now. Just focus on YOU. In the process, you will learn much about yourself as an individual. This will make you more stronger and more confident. And confidence and independence in a woman is SEXY!