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Re: Stop speaking with my family and moving away
If you feel that the same abuse might continue in the future then you have every right to leave. You're a mature adult and you can make decisions on your own. If you continue to repress your emotions and live in an abusive environment you'll only hurt yourself and fuel the psychic vampire like nature of your father and brother who feed on the abuse.
Re: Stop speaking with my family and moving away
Bullies pick on the weak.
Stop being a victim.
If you feel you are verbally abused then verbally abuse them back. If you are being physically abused then you also physically abuse them back.
Once they stop seeing you as a weak loser they will start respecting you.
Re: Stop speaking with my family and moving away
^^ Oh gosh - he's talking about his parents. You can't hit your parents.
Islamically speaking; I believe your supposed to give your relatives a fair chance but if the end result is always the same (negative) then khamoshi (you should remain silent). I think you have every right religiously to lead your life away from abuse.
Who knows maybe when there is some distance the relationships will improve.
And you will have the power/option of removing yourself from that atmosphere (i.e. leave and go home, not call for a while).
Its always good to keep communication open though.
Even if the other reacts less then pleasantly - just make sure you do right. Don't worry about what you get in return.
Good luck - let us know how it went. :)
Re: Stop speaking with my family and moving away
Bullies pick on the weak.
Stop being a victim.
If you feel you are verbally abused then verbally abuse them back. If you are being physically abused then you also physically abuse them back.
Once they stop seeing you as a weak loser they will start respecting you.
Maarney waalay sey baraa maaf kurney wala hota hai, Enterprise uncle/aunty. Not mentioning, encouraging/telling somebody to start abusing their own parents.
I'd rather listen to Muniya, Op.
Would you mind discussing the reason behind them being abusive to you? Your whole family is abusing you, even your mother who has been abused herself. They are not being abusive to your other siblings. Could it be that they are angry at you for some wrong doing of yours, and you are seeing that anger add an abuse?