How to stop caring and getting stressd over things mum/hubby/siblings say…?? anyone know how…
husband really does p**** me off sometimes, and raises my bp, maybe its the pregnancy, but once in a while, he will get alll moody over something silly and then when i start stressing he will tell m,e to grow up and stop raising my bp, its not himm its me…he says…is it just me? how do i stop gving a **** what he or anyone says even if its not the end of the world…
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Just don't try to think about it too much......the more you think about it the more stressed you get.....do something else to get your mind off of things
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Watch Fight Club, (with Brad Pitt, not the Bollywood version). The movie will teach you not to give a f****.
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awww nadz its ok, i think the pregnancy has something to do with sensitivty that you have come across. i myself am a really sensitive person it gets annoying really lol on top of that im a psych major and that helps me read ppl well. I can tell wat ppl r thinking 99% of the time with is more scary than helpful
over the years i have become soooooooo laparva (careless) im still sensitive but i choose not to care anymore. theres no point your only hurting yourself darling. wen u do get sensitive rmr all the sweet things ur husband does for you, relax, brush it off, make a joke out of it :)
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Drink cold water....
Take good night sleep.
Do breathing exercises-slowly blow in and out..
Buy a punching bag
Place a sticker on the concrete wall with a circle- Write in the circle "Bang Head Here"
Don't do it-it is only a joke :)
Cook a bad meal every time he makes you stressed.... Again don't do it-it is only a joke :)
Need more advice?
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Damn female hormones are freaking awful. I feel bad for every husband who has had to deal with a pregnant wife!!!
But wouldn’t you have the slightest bit of empathy for the wife?
She doesn’t feel good about acting like a monster, even if the fluctuation of hormones are to blame.
Morning sickness, frequent visits to the bathroom, not being able to find a comfortable position to sleep, aches and pains
Labor
Fear of losing your figure/looks…and the self-esteem issues
And then in the end, taking care of the child
Adopt a child, CM
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Hey hey now hold on there. Anything I said is something women say too. Female hormones are out of whack. Females know they do demand really weird stuff. The difference is that the guy when he loves his wife will go out and deal with it and much much more.
However I as an outsider will comment that they are all insane. Which they infact are. However that does not belay the fact that women are kinda crazy during a pregnancy.
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To RV: And looking at her child everyday..........should be priceless.
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To Diwana: Who said it wouldn't be?
To Diwana: Who said it wouldn't be?
I was just pointing out the balance is still in favor of her seeing her child..that's all. :p
Well, considering the fact that they have a human being growing inside thier body, which is leeching off all nutrients and food, and the fact that this could also be potentially dangerous to her life, wouldn’t you be a bit crazy too?
Actually, you know what, no wifey for you. You’d make her insane before the hormones.
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^ 
“leeching off…” “potentially dangerous to her life”…
What has this world come to.
Okay so maybe that was a wee bit harsh. Frankly, I think the little peanuts are adorable and I’m all for having one but seriously, with that kind of attitude (talking about CM), no one has a right to judge what women go through. Pregnancy is only one part of the list. It also includes cramps and various other pains every month, labor, etc.
OK. 
Just focus on positives. There are a lot of things you can do to make yourself happy and busy while pregnant.
Remember: Perganacy is a ‘disease’ which has almost 100 percent cure!
Before long don’t be surprised if you want to get ‘sick’ again. 
Good luck and enjoy.
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u need to sit ur husband down and TALK to him. communication is the KEY for any relationship to work and specially of the husband's and wife's. I am sure he will understand ur situation. Ur pregnant and pregnancy comes with lots of hormonal changes that cause mood swings. About other people, for now don't even worry. u need to concentrate on ur pregnancy and ur upcoming baby and the future of YOUR family, which involves u, ur husband and ur child. once u have ur baby, then u can start worrying abt ur siblings, parents in-laws etc etc etc. for now, just don't pay attention to these things but make sure ur husband knows how u feel so he can be there supporting in every step. :)
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Think about your lil baby everytime you get pissed off. I am sure that will make you all happy :) Imagine when that lil one is gona be in your arms..awwn..
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Please don't take stress from ur hubby..... it FOR SURE will come in the manner of ur child!!!!! I had the same issues and my lil daughter has so much short temper problem....
therefore, try to be calm and let this time pass no matter how it will
may Allah give you saber and peace of heart :)
Lol!