Hey, So here’s the story. If you found out, an old friend is dating a girl who tired to break another friends marriage by saying that she was having sexual relationships with the friends husband (which were false). Would you warn this old friend (who is kind of a player as well) about this girl, or would you just not bud in.
A little background-
This girl is insane, she created fake text messages and forwarded them and false claims about having sex with the guy etc and then calling the guys wife and saying how much she loves him and how she lost her virginity to him etc. This was all like 2 weeks before the guy’s wedding. The girls mother was involved in this as well. The girl is not from a good family, no offense to anyone from waziristan with a father in jail for money laundering. The Husband denied all allegations, made this girl admit she was lying, cursed at her, etc etc etc but this girl did not stop she would email and call his wife and harrass her, tell her weird things and then she would give random guys the wife’s number, so they would call and curse at her etc etc etc The Husband and wife are very happy, Mashallah, obviously they went thru a serious issue specially right before their wedding, but the guy would cry and say he didn’t do anything wrong. He says, they met at a friends party, then this girl added him on msn etc and they talked generally and they met like 3/4 times with friends and one of these times he gave her a ride from the mall to her house as she lived close to his house. At this time his wife was in Pakistan preparing for their wedding and he went to the mall to shop for his wedding, so the girl knew he was getting married. But according to her the Husband used her emotionally and physically. She was a huge drama! Her mother would say crap to us that, our friends husband use their daughter sexually etc. What kind of mother says this, and then on the other hand she would say that, Oh this is childish stuff (regarding her daughter trying to break their marriage off) My mother would kick me if even broke off a fling or a friendship, anything for that matter! I don’t even want to think of what kind of mother would permit such horrendous and disgusting behavior.
Now this girl knows I am friends with The WIFE and that me and most of our friends know about what she did, so when we add him on facebook or when he adds us, somehow a few days latter we are deleted! We know the guy since we were kids, we know the family. Should We tell the guy about this girl?
I would be apprehensive before taking a guy’s side, as men to cheat etc, but this I have seen this guy with my best friend for the past 6 years and he has always been head over heels and he was the one who insisted on the wedding. A very nice guy, very sweet, someone who talks to anyone and would help anyone, so when this girl started talking to him telling him about her ex, he listened and talked to her as a friend, but this girl interperted at being LOVE or something, knowing he was engaged and getting married. She would threaten to beat the HUSBAND up etc and then she would say that the wife is crazy, then she would email us all and our other friends call us sluts and how we know that the HUSBAND was having an affair and that few of us saw them together at the mall and the party etc etc etc. Like a total nut job!
As bad as this sounds, all of us want to hurt her badly! But it is gunaah and we do not want to stoop to her level etc But she is just one of those people that, you can not pray for at all, Like Allah is larke ko bohat bari sazzaa dey etc Like when all of this was happening, we told her to calm done and not try to break someone’s marriage as it is a BIG huge Gunaah, but she would be like Is wear on the Quran. Etc etc etc. Oh btw they met 2 months before the wedding! So it was not as if they were friends for a long time. The wife knew that her husband has a new friend etc but obvious she trusted her to be husband. Now Should I warn my friend about this phycho, would he believe me? Should we tell him what she did to our mutual friend etc? Or should we just let Allah do his magic
Karma is a bad bad bad bite!
P.s This girl had been going around telling people my friends husband cheated on her with some other girl and that they were getting divorced and some people even thought she was really sick as in with a deadly disease! Oh and this girl called my friends siblings and told them she slept with their brother in law and was pregnant etc before the wedding..