Stinky Fish!

Hey, So here’s the story. If you found out, an old friend is dating a girl who tired to break another friends marriage by saying that she was having sexual relationships with the friends husband (which were false). Would you warn this old friend (who is kind of a player as well) about this girl, or would you just not bud in.

A little background-
This girl is insane, she created fake text messages and forwarded them and false claims about having sex with the guy etc and then calling the guys wife and saying how much she loves him and how she lost her virginity to him etc. This was all like 2 weeks before the guy’s wedding. The girls mother was involved in this as well. The girl is not from a good family, no offense to anyone from waziristan with a father in jail for money laundering. The Husband denied all allegations, made this girl admit she was lying, cursed at her, etc etc etc but this girl did not stop she would email and call his wife and harrass her, tell her weird things and then she would give random guys the wife’s number, so they would call and curse at her etc etc etc The Husband and wife are very happy, Mashallah, obviously they went thru a serious issue specially right before their wedding, but the guy would cry and say he didn’t do anything wrong. He says, they met at a friends party, then this girl added him on msn etc and they talked generally and they met like 3/4 times with friends and one of these times he gave her a ride from the mall to her house as she lived close to his house. At this time his wife was in Pakistan preparing for their wedding and he went to the mall to shop for his wedding, so the girl knew he was getting married. But according to her the Husband used her emotionally and physically. She was a huge drama! Her mother would say crap to us that, our friends husband use their daughter sexually etc. What kind of mother says this, and then on the other hand she would say that, Oh this is childish stuff (regarding her daughter trying to break their marriage off) My mother would kick me if even broke off a fling or a friendship, anything for that matter! I don’t even want to think of what kind of mother would permit such horrendous and disgusting behavior.

Now this girl knows I am friends with The WIFE and that me and most of our friends know about what she did, so when we add him on facebook or when he adds us, somehow a few days latter we are deleted! We know the guy since we were kids, we know the family. Should We tell the guy about this girl?

I would be apprehensive before taking a guy’s side, as men to cheat etc, but this I have seen this guy with my best friend for the past 6 years and he has always been head over heels and he was the one who insisted on the wedding. A very nice guy, very sweet, someone who talks to anyone and would help anyone, so when this girl started talking to him telling him about her ex, he listened and talked to her as a friend, but this girl interperted at being LOVE or something, knowing he was engaged and getting married. She would threaten to beat the HUSBAND up etc and then she would say that the wife is crazy, then she would email us all and our other friends call us sluts and how we know that the HUSBAND was having an affair and that few of us saw them together at the mall and the party etc etc etc. Like a total nut job!
As bad as this sounds, all of us want to hurt her badly! But it is gunaah and we do not want to stoop to her level etc But she is just one of those people that, you can not pray for at all, Like Allah is larke ko bohat bari sazzaa dey etc Like when all of this was happening, we told her to calm done and not try to break someone’s marriage as it is a BIG huge Gunaah, but she would be like Is wear on the Quran. Etc etc etc. Oh btw they met 2 months before the wedding! So it was not as if they were friends for a long time. The wife knew that her husband has a new friend etc but obvious she trusted her to be husband. Now Should I warn my friend about this phycho, would he believe me? Should we tell him what she did to our mutual friend etc? Or should we just let Allah do his magic :slight_smile: Karma is a bad bad bad bite!

P.s This girl had been going around telling people my friends husband cheated on her with some other girl and that they were getting divorced and some people even thought she was really sick as in with a deadly disease! Oh and this girl called my friends siblings and told them she slept with their brother in law and was pregnant etc before the wedding..

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Ok as you said this girl is a total insane freak! Yes Allah will have somethin prepared for her however in the mean time i suggest you DO warn your friend, and if he is truly a good friend he will believe you. People do these messed up things, people with pure envy! Make sure you warn your friend, and i do suggest maybe a threat to her? (i know it sounds bad but these type of people will NEVER learn) Someone needs to show her she cant be a insane b!tch for the rest of her life n go around chatting out her arse!

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wow.

What is her motive?

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too much hearsay to make this nothing more than a juicy story at this point.

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Stay away, when **** hits the fan, no one is spared.

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Dolce vita... Bibi aap pareshan na hon. Just send me this bad bad girls email and phone number, I will take care of it.

Ps: send a few pics first
ps2: pics are to read her aura I mean ahem

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Jesus.

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No no, wrong person

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We don't know what motives this girl has, as when she started her allegations- shoud would say these things

1- That she loves the guy,who she met like 1.5 months before the date she started her allegations etc.

2- That he used her physically and emotionally, that she lost her virginity to him and that she is pregnant (she latter obviously said that she wasn't and it was cause her period was late etc) Such bull!

3- She would say she wants to warn his "wife" about him

4- Then she would say she can do better and she is not after the guy as she can get a better guy and any guy etc

5- She and her friends would then say that the "wife" is ignorant to marry him and how they were just trying to help the "wife"

6- When asked by us friends, why she is doing this and if she thinks the GUY would leave his wife for her, like she would break them up and he would go back to her, and sometimes she would say I love him, I want him back, other times she would be like I am just warning his wife etc.

So its confusing, some times she would cry that she is in love with the guy, then she would curse everyone out, then she would say something else. She would say thing like, Oh i got drunk with him at the party and we went over to his friends room and had sex for the first time, then she would say she had sex with him for the first time some other time etc etc etc She would say she is pregnant and that please dont marry him, I love him etc etc etc

My friends Husband, on the other hand- while this was happening called her and cursed her out badly, a few times, by this time his family found out and they were flipping out, and they made him call her and they heard the entire conversation and so did the wife. In it the girl is like, you used me physically and emotionally, so the husband goes- "when did I even put a finger on you" and she would not comment, then the emotional use part, He asked her " When did I flirt with you or say that I like you etc" she wouldn't comment, but would just start calling him names etc etc etc.

The husband, did admit that he did speak to the girl after meeting her, but on friendly terms, like you would speak with a new friend and that is it. The guy is not the flirting type, when My husband heard about this, he just laughed and said that its not possible the girl is lying, without even knowing the entire story. My friend started dating him 5 years ago and they got engaged then married, but in this entire time, neither I nor my Husband nor another friend, has ever caught him checking out any girls or flirting and we spend a lot of time together. He isn't the type of guy who is dis-respectful to anyone, he even treats waiters with respect and kindness. But he has a bad temper, he has always been extremely kind towards all of us friends, a very chilled out guy, which is uncommon for pakistani guys. But he wants to like kill this girl for hurting his wife in such a manner, and we kind of believe that if he doesn't kill her, he will definitely beat her up badly. My friend is scared about that as well, as she doesn't want her husband going to jail for beating this girl up. Although I think the girl deserved to get her butt kicked!

The Guy is the one who wanted to get married and pre-wedding he was the happiest chap, buying his suit, dancing around, shopping and a very happy groom. Even on the day of his wedding, he was all smiles and hyper. So it is so hard to believe that a guy who wanted to get married and was so happy about his wedding, would cheat or have an affair so close to his wedding. Also he met her about 3/4 times and with other friends, who were also friends with his wife or knew his wife to be.

I don't know the motives of this girl and they are impossible to figure out, I think she was just extremely jealous that this guy was in love with his wife and not her. I think she tried to break them up or for him to fall in love with her, but it didn't happen to she took this low and pathetic road.

Now the friend we wanted to warn about her, He is a player and this girl is the type who wants to get married asap, desperate! The type who is "oh I don't wear sleeveless and drink or smoke etc" But then you find picture of her in tube tops and halters and mini's. What shocks me is that her background is directly from waziristan! Are people from waziristan this modern? Do they allow their daughters to roam around wearing even sleeveless to parties etc. And yes her parents know she dresses like this! Which isn't an issue, i'm just telling you guys so you guys have a better idea of what type of girl we're dealing with.

Okay back to the friend we want to warn, how do we contact him, I dont have his number as I haven't seen him in over a year and none of my other friends have it and some of them think, that we shouldn't warn him as he is a player and he will use her and throw her away and she deserves that. Also my friend (the wife) doesn't want to tell him and him tell that girl and then another scene is created, like she doesn't want to create problems or a drama. She is more apprehensive cause of her husband, as his temper is bad and if someone points a finger at his wife, or says that she's lying or tries to create a rift between them, he will be a very unhappy chap. Men are weird but for some reason women are loosing their minds and doing such cheap things, it's disgusting. Why can't people just tell the truth and be civil to one another, why create a need to lie? Why are women so jealous?! lol

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give her info to x2...he will straighten her out.

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as for your problem, of the playe rfriend etc...youd' do bes tto mind your business and stay out of it. Everyone gets what htey deserve in the end.

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That's true.