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Why every second post here is related to disliking the CLOTHES from inlaws?
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Because ultimately, it's not about the clothes. Ever heard the expression, it's not really the gift that matters, but the thought that counts. Well, when stuff like this happens, it makes you wonder what kind of thought went into it. It might seem materialistic, but really, it's not...it's deeper than that. It's getting hurt because your brand new family isn't showing as much consideration for you as they are for themselves. It would be different if Sara's susraal purchased the same things for her and her family as they purchased for themselves. Then, it would simply be a matter of grinning and bearing it because everybody's tastes are different. When someone gets you cheap, tacky stuff while getting the expensive, tasteful things for themselves...well, clearly the "thoughts" aren't that great and it hurts.
Anyway Sara...I understand why this is getting to you...and honestly, it would hurt me too. But try to put it aside m'dear. Be the better person. Allah will reward you for your sabr.