stingy in laws

[Deeba1234]

@mistral

There are far too many examples of bahus being mistreated by their inlaws…of inlaws being mistreated by their bahus or damaads…people do need to speak up. I agree with you. But it’s a tricky thing, because in our culture, speaking up or pointing out rude behavior (even if you do it politely) is oftentimes perceived as even more rude than the behavior of the rude person who actually started the whole drama. It’s a mess isn’t it? You really have to choose your battles wisely in the land mine of desi relations.

It’s pretty unbelievable when u think about it logically, isn’t it