Miss Colorful in my experience these kinds of feelings are just a growing up phase and it will pass. Hopefully you will be able to find your mr right, with whome you want to be stuck all your life :)
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i think pm has had bad experience wiht girls..or has heard or encountered too many of the 'corrupt' kind.. so even though we dont like what he said we shouldnt bash him to death..
blah blah blah...
I had 2 options. one: go on for ever to make her realize what she is asking/getting into.
Second: what I just did.
Some time woman get so get involved in their little world that they practically forget that they also exit in real world.
For example, moms with little kid in the car get into accident very often. They had too much attention toward their their own little world(In this case it would be the baby in the car) that they forget they are on the road.
Now our sista here(from post one) is so caught up in the cosy feeling, feeling men around her bing her, that she is forgetting she exist in real world too. Now we can get her married. But that wont be fair, would it?? Getting her A hubby would cause hubby a pain.
Sista is going earn a special kind of rep very soon, That if she hasn't done it already.
SO ppl! its important for her to know how is going to be looked at BEFORE she make choices. Cuz unlike men, women do care what ppl think about them.
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Ah some people never disappoint me! 
blah blah blah...
I had 2 options. one: go on for ever to make her realize what she is asking/getting into.
Second: what I just did.
Some time woman get so get involved in their little world that they practically forget that they also exit in real world. For example, moms with little kid in the car get into accident very often. They had too much attention toward their their own little world(In this case it would be the baby in the car) that they forget they are on the road.
Now our sista here(from post one) is so caught up in the cosy feeling, feeling men around her bing her, that she is forgetting she exist in real world too. Now we can get her married. But that wont be fair, would it?? Getting her A hubby would cause hubby a pain.
Sista is going earn a special kind of rep very soon, That if she hasn't done it already.
SO ppl! its important for her to know how is going to be looked at BEFORE she make choices. Cuz unlike men, women do care what ppl think about them.
The most significant words in all of the above were
*blah blah blah...
*
For the rest, it was so crap, it seemed YOUR definition of 'common sense' is just
redundant.
Koi baat naheen..
I didn't want any verdict in my fav. I just wanted to tell what I felt about the issue.
I don't really argue, It does not establish any thing.
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bechari ne aik hi post ki hai and i dont think shes coming back here to actually take notice of any of the above comments although Namaan's and straight up's oppinon i wud go along too.
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^ I did read their comments and appreciate good advices..
However I was extremely hurt from some of the comments. It almost made me cry how some people judged me and my character just from one post.
Anyway, thank you all...God bless.
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post more.
when u say u like variety do u change friends often?
No I dont. Infact I hardly make friends. I have 2 best friends since 6 years and that about it. I have a wonderful mom whom I hangout a lot. I like changes as in I like to do different things. I dont like same routine everyday.
I guess I always had in mind when you are married you want to be stable, patient and kinda like same routine everyday. I am just scared and trying to think of everything that can cause problems in marriage because of me. I want to be a good wife and live a happy life with my partner, but don't know if I am mature and ready for it now.
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Nice job, backing off!!!
I just luv this place. I am going to buy life time membership.
Plz spare the guy, dont stick to him. Instead stick to every one... like a chewed gum on a chair.
you girls are SO full of crap. U telling me all your life you exchanging fone no. with guys(they guys you absolutely adore) YET NO ONE went beyond being friends?? U seriously that unattractive??? In that case have some self respect honey...
Like On your most horny days you did not talk to them beyond casual stuff??? oh phleeeezzzzzzzzzzeeeeeeeeeee.
I assure you that THAY ONE guy would be better off with out you!!!!
Its very much ok to be a slut...just don't spoil some one else life...
i'm sorry, are we reading the same thread?
^ I did read their comments and appreciate good advices.. However I was extremely hurt from some of the comments. It almost made me cry how some people judged me and my character just from one post. Anyway, thank you all...God bless.
Now why would you be hurt by what some random stranger has to say about your situation. You are giving a lot of credit to the judgement of someone you don't really know. He may very well be some psycho with no real life experience venting his frustrations here (just cuz he can without facing any real consequences), when he needs to find himself a shrink instead.
Like someone said, this is part of growing up, figuring out what you really want. Until then, just make sure you avoid guys who are seemingly normal in real life, yet are secretly typing away in red on some discussion board.
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Punching Monk, i think you’re wayyyy out of line here bashing her like this. no where in her post does it indicate that shes ANY of those words that u harshly used to describe her. she is just a young girl who is portraying her insecurities and feelings about marriage at this age. which is quite normal behavior and concerns.
good job performing your MOD-ly duties and helping a fellow guppi out. im sure your very proud of yourself. with being a MOD comes great responsibility and (hopefully) a sense of intellect and maturity…which, sadly, you have proven that you DONT have.
hmmpphhh 
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sahi
Hello everyone! :) My question may sound childish but...I have to ask. I am a 22 year girl..never had any boyfriend or anything like that in life. However I do admire good personalities and get along with almost everyone. What I wanted to ask is, when people get married, do they have to try to be in love with that person only and not get attracted to anyone else or it just comes natural? I mean like I am today, my friend says I am charming and flirtious...I talk to everyone, compliment them if they are nice etc...but I dont feel the need to take the conversation further or give them phone number etc. Maybe when it comes to a long term committment I dont feel sure if I will change and only stick to that person and not get bored since I always liked variety in life? I don't know I am just too confused. My mom wants me to get married now but with these kinda thoughts in mind do you guys think I am ready for it? Is it normal or I should wait? :|
no, your question is not childish. everything is fair game here on GS.
now, i understand your fears and concerns. no, you dont have to TRY to 'be in love' or 'get attracted' to the person you marry... because, naturally, if you give it your best, with an open mind and heart, Allah helps your relationship grow and flourish....so that before you know it, you WILL be looking at them in the way that u love them and are attracted to them. kudrat ti tor par a bond will begin to form between u two.
when u marry someone, the term ''for the rest of my life'' or ''long term'' can sound intimidating. but rest assured you will be fine. but u have to be mature and up to the task. you have to have a mindset that you can and WILL make this relationship work. you cant just wake up one morning and be like ''im not attracted to him, lets move on''. no. relationships dont work that way. thats why, as many of the other posters mentioned, its important to be mature enough to set your mind to this dedication. :)