If your parents were to divorce, how would you take it if your mother was to re-marry another man? Is it hard to deal with the fact that your dear mother is now someone else’s physically and emotionally?
Would it be different if your dad was to marry another woman?
Your reaction must be the one you think you would have when you were small - like 15 years or under.
Re: Step-Dads
i was just gonna say - i can't think of my parents getting married to someone else..that'd be too weird.
i don't think i can honestly answer that question. it's just a little too weird.
great question and all..i just can't answer it personally...
(then why did i reply...hmmm :D)
Re: Step-Dads
I can answer it honestly.
When I was five, six, seven, up until i was like twenty probably. . .i wanted my parents to get divorced. I never envisioned another person in the scenario but my dad and i weren't the greatest of friends so i thought it'd be so cool if i never had to deal with him.
Now if, after that, they both found someone else, i probably would have hated it. Not because i want my mother or my father to be mine or because i thought they only belonged together. . . but because what if he treated me like crapp. If he treated me fine, i'd be fine with it. . same goes for dad although i wasn't really close to him then so i probably would have wanted nothing to do with him.
I'm glad i feel differently now. . . Insha-Allah, they'll stay married forever :)
And I feel horrible for thinking that way as a kid.
Re: Step-Dads
I know someone who's father married another woman. That boy was chattered in pieces, because his father had done un justice to his mother. He almost suicided. I personally only react to situations if I am in one, therefore right now I wont be able to give personal opinions regarding your question.