Staying together *just* for the sake of the kids..

[KKF]

Re: Staying together just for the sake of the kids..

@redvelvet

You say that as if it were an absolute. Yes, in some situations…divorce can be seen as cowardice. But in other situations…divorce can be see as having courage. It’s not so black and white, KKF…and I believe that ALLAH also knows/understands that things are not so black and white…and that’s why HE allowed divorce (though it’s disliked).

in most cases divorce these days is an easy way out…u need courage to see black N white!!!..this is what you need to do…Allah has given us choice but also encouraged us to stay together as far as humanly possible…you do your BEST to keep the marriage intact but if all else fail, divorce with “Husn-e-sulook” … be nice to the lady in every possible way!!!