Re: Staying together just for the sake of the kids..
**Hadees are in a particular situation and for a particular person according to the person’s ability. i’ll give you another Hadees:
a baddu [native saudi] came to the Prophet [saws] and asked what Islam is all about…He told him about the 5 pillars of Islam and he said he will do it but no less or no more than what he has been told…
…when he left, Prophet [saws] asked the sahaabas [razi Allaho Ta’alaa ajmain] if they saw a ‘jannati’? … They all said NO…then Prophet [saws] said…If this man does what he promised to do…he’ll go to jannat"…subHaan Allah!
does this mean that it’s the end of Islam? Islam also requires you to propagate deen, to establish shari’a…to enforce Islamic Laws…this is the bare ‘MINIMUM’!
it’s a matter of taqwa which requires you to rise to the occasion and accept challenges and then do something about it to achieve it.
i never said that divorce is NOT allowed in Islam…what i said was that one must do everything in his power to avoid it for the sake of Allah, your wife and your innocent kids.
May Allah guide us to the right path and introduce us all to the 'spirit of Islam,"…aameen**