Re: Staying together just for the sake of the kids..
**i think we are saying the same thing in different words…yes, it is allowed and yes sometimes you have no other alternative…what i said is that you have to is NOT to be coward and do ALL that is humanly possible to avoid divorce…[YES, that includes living together as strangers for the sake of children]…i think divorce can be had in ONLY extreme situations and that too after trying it hard to stay together.
if you have to divorce, you have to do it amicably…be generous and take care of her if she needs help. kids N ex wife is your responsibility. we must resist cultural pressures that are put on us if it’s against Islamic teachings.
let’s pray that ALL the couples, who may be contemplating divorce, may receive guidance and may Allah ease their situation and make them ‘jaama for each other’…aameen**