Staying in a volatile marriage...divorce rate going up

[Deeba1234]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

@salaam2k14

No of course in most cases i’m guessing the person is not shutting up and steps are taken to show that the abuse will not be tolerated and that’s why the marriage is given another chance right? The basis of still wanting to work on the marriage is the fact that we are all flawed individuals.

A woman that has no means of income most likely would think that marriage after divorce is not possible because the word divorce already has such a negative tag attached to it so she stays.

I’ve seen a person that got a divorce after 1 month of marriage or after a couple months of marriage which initially when I hear that I feel like how much was the marriage given a chance if after only 1 month divorce is taken as a very serious option.

If I came across someone who divorced that quickly I’d tend to think something really bad happened, taking into account our culture where divorce still comes with stigma in most families..

Drink or drug problems, forced nikkah, physical violence or secret gf/bf.. I think it’s in situations like that where quick divorces are most likely to happen in desi culture - and those are completely justified imo..