Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up
Is a person “stupid” to stay in an abusive,volatile marriage thinking it would improve because all human beings are flawed? I was just talking with a person that’s never been married and when they blatantly said that the person would be stupid to stay in such a marriage and should’ve gotten a divorce after 1 month.
Then we have people that say that the divorce rate is going up in the desi community and it’s really staggering how people just don’t give value to the institution of marriage anymore.
Someone I know is in a marriage where the wife was informed of her husband having an affair and there was evidence of it but she’s still married to the man even if he is unfaithful.
Either you’re stupid for trying to make it work and not giving up too early and letting years go by improving oneself and being hopeful not believing in the concept of divorce or you’re one of the ones that’s involved in the divorce rate going up.
Yes. Because no matter how much you love a person, that does NOT give them a right to abuse you. You need to respect yourself otherwise no-one else will respect you. If you stay quiet, then the abuser has a free pass to do whatever he/she wants.