Staying in a volatile marriage...divorce rate going up

[salaam2k14]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

@Theorist

You know when you look at something too closely, focus gets blurry sometimes. I think being in a bad marriage is something like that. You live everyday trying to make sense of your relationship. You start looking so closely that you see parts of the big picture but not the picture everyone is looking at from the outside.

What do you mean by the last sentence?