Staying at a hotel instead of MIL's house during visit?

[ManoRani]

Re: Staying at a hotel instead of MIL’s house during visit?

@ninjamummy

It is after all one night. In the future when longer visits etc happen, you and your husband will have to see what is best for you for you both.

You will always be blamed, after all you are the DIL. That is until your MIL changes her own way of thinking and attitude. Just take it with a grain of salt. What Moms/MIL don’t realise is that their relationship with their sons is on a different level,and the relationship between the DIL and hubby are completely different. Even husbands are cowardly and throw their wives into the dogfight, as they cannot be honest with their own parents about what they want ie privacy, living separately etc etc..which is why the DIL is forever public enemy #1.

Absolutely, they baby their sons so that they will never stand up to them. They are already guilt tripping my husband about his decision for future living arrangements even though he has said he will always financially provide for them. sigh Guess I’ll just bite the bullet on this one, as usual.