Staying at a hotel instead of MIL's house during visit?

[ManoRani]

Re: Staying at a hotel instead of MIL’s house during visit?

@Paheli00

If your husband is ok with you two staying at a hotel, then do that.

As for all the other stuff…let them blame you all they want. The ONLY persons feelings you need to concerned about in this situation is your husband. As long as he’s comfortable with the decision to stay at the hotel (and living in a separate house from his parents), then that’s all that matters. Continue to not to say anything to them about this…let your husband deal with them.

Yeah, as uncomfortable as I am, I guess it’s just one night, which most of the night will be spent at the wedding. Best to just stay quiet and put up with it. Especially since I feel like hubby is torn, I don’t want him to have to pick between me or them. I’m also praying that some other relatives will just take our room that are visiting for the shaadi and we will be"forced" to stay at a hotel, that would be the best case scenario.