Re: Stay at Home Wives/Mothers and Spending Money
Thank you. 
Yes, I’m quite lucky when it comes to my husband. While he’s certainly not perfect…many of his values/beliefs make my life relatively easy compared to other stories I hear. My MIL has always been a SAHW so hubby gets his view regarding money by watching his parents. My MIL also has full access to money and never asks FIL before spending (and believe me…my MIL is a true shopoholic!). Even hubby says he’s glad I don’t shop like her! :halo:
Ha…yes, I’d love to knock some commom sense into your husband! 
I read your 1st post about not buying him a bday gift and felt bad for HIM…then I read the other post about him making you feel guilty for the debts and wanted to 
him!
If you don’t mind me asking…did he know about your debt BEFORE marriage? If so, then I don’t understand what logic he uses to make you feel guilty?! 
Since you mentioned you can’t work in the country you’re in…and I’m assuming you moved to that country after marriage b/c of him.