Re: Stay At Home Wife Brought From Pak
how about any postman lol
but there are girls like this its true why deny it however we shouldn't make assmptions that all girls are like this..
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**I don’t have in laws here and have no kids.
Its only us 2 living in the house. we both work full time but I still
make sure fresh food is cooked at least 4-5 days in the week
and special dishes over the weekend…But then my hubby helps out with
the cleaning, washing, ironing over the weekend etc.
It depends on the husband as well. You cannot expect the wife to do everything
no matter where she is from. You need to help out and I am sure a good routine
can be worked out if you work as a team…**
Stay At Home Wife Brought From Pak
Yeah I think it depends on person to person. I think when these expectations of "so and so will do this and that for us" therefore assume a girl or guy from here or there will be like this, it will backfire. I don't understand do people marry their kids off for their childrens lives/future or for themselves?
Personally, I see so many threads here with complaints about a wife/Bahu waking up at so and so time, 11 or 12. But yet, families don't want to let their bahus/wives work or study or something OTHER than cooking and cleaning. What do people expect? Why is it always solely on so and so to wake up and make breakfast or cook at the times THEY would want this person to do things. Who would want to wake up with that kind of expectation everyday, whether you are used to it or not, you give a little you get a little. Sometimes yes you have lazy cases, most of the time I would think these girls/woman want more for themselves too. People in our culture have huge sky high expectations from that Bahu title. And agreed, husband/wife both sharing in the work. Happier home environment in my opinion over the Bahu constantly expected to do all the house work....kar bi le, it won't be enough. Aur nai karai, to bhoth kharab ma, baap ne raise kiya. And you/ or your son is prince of what land? that he can't be bothered to help around the house sometimes? .. what say of that upbringing?
Where can I find a guy that’ll let me get away with not cooking/ cleaning/ anything else that is expected of a good Paki biwi?!
Ok… that was a joke. But so what if they wake up late. Honeymoon stage is bound to be over sooner or later, no?
Re: Stay At Home Wife Brought From Pak
Why do u have to bring sex into every thread.
Hey hey hey, don't be a party pooper man!!!!
Re: Stay At Home Wife Brought From Pak
Are there any career women looking for a stay at home husband? I don't cook or clean or do anything useful around the house but I'll look pretty for you.
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Ditto. :k:
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Enjoy bringing girls over, and letting your own daughters/sisters/moms (hey, man, you never know) who were raised here...sit around waiting for....
the white postman?
(Do we even have postmen anymore? God).
a great number of ladies are married to guys who either came over after getting married or were here temporarily..as a student for example. So its not just guys importing girls, I think it goes both ways.
Now a point can be made that overall due to cultural gender expectations at large, its easier for guys to import wives and be happy vs girls ti import husbands be happy. I dont have an argument for that.