these are exactly the reasons i would never give my wife this option 
Re: Stay-At-Home Desi Dads
My partner (not hubby yet) wouldn’t mind staying at home, at all. But I would rather have that option, as I am the woman. I want to be able to take time off of work and stay at home and vice versa. But I guess he deserves that too:(.
Dammit, equality!
Re: Stay-At-Home Desi Dads
insh’Allah I plan on to stay at home as I will be working-from-home!