Stalking!

By Robert Ruth

Dispatch Staff Reporter

A 25-year-old Ohio Wesleyan University graduate is charged with using the Internet to stalk her former professor, who is more than twice her age and with whom she once had a sexual affair.

Erum Ahmed, a native of Pakistan, was arrested Tuesday night in a motel room after trying to confront Conrad A. Kent, 58, outside his Delaware home.

Ahmed had flown to the United States the previous day from Karachi, Pakistan, according to testimony yesterday in U.S. District Court in Columbus.

At the end of the two-hour hearing, Magistrate Terence P. Kemp ordered Ahmed held in the Franklin County jail without bail. She is charged with one count each of using interstate communications to threaten someone and traveling across state lines to threaten someone.

Kent, who has been married for 34 years, is an award-winning professor of modern foreign languages and humanities at Ohio Wesleyan. Ohio Wesleyan Provost William Louthan yesterday described Kent as "widely recognized as one (of) our best professors. He has been a spectacular professor here for a quarter-century.‘’

The university does not have a policy that bars sexual relations between students and faculty members, Louthan said. But any professor who engages in such conduct could be subject to sexual harassment allegations, he added.

No such complaint has been filed against Kent, he said.

Ahmed, dressed in a green jail uniform, glared at Kent as she was escorted in handcuffs into the courtroom yesterday. Kent did not look at her.

He testified that he and Ahmed met in spring 1998 when she took one of his classes and began an off-and-on sexual affair in August of that year. While he never promised to marry her, he told her he loved her.

In March 1999, Ahmed allegedly phoned Kent’s wife anonymously and accused him of having an affair with one of his students.

Kent said he broke off the affair May 14, 1999, the day Ahmed was leaving for Pakistan.

"She came to my office and I said, ‘Goodbye,’ ‘’ he said. "I wanted to end the relationship. She did not accept that.‘’

Despite the breakup, the one-time lovers corresponded through e-mail. Some of Kent’s messages to Ahmed were "of a sexual nature,‘’ he said.

Ahmed’s e-mails and phone calls took on a negative tone, he said. "Her tenor was desperate,‘’ Kent testified.

In July 1999, Ahmed allegedly sent e- mails to Ohio Wesleyan officials accusing Kent of raping her three times. He then informed university officials that he was being stalked.

Additional e-mails from Ahmed urged Kent to convert to Islam and to marry her. She allegedly threatened to return to the United States, injure him and burn down his house if he rejected her pleas.

"Are you going to be a Muslim? Are you going to marry me?‘’ one message read. "If I hear even one word of disagreement from you, I shall fight you until I die . . . expose you to the police. (I will) take off your glasses and break them, hit you, slap you and beat you.‘’

Kent testified that he was terrified of Ahmed and that in a long-distance phone conversation earlier this month told her, "Please don’t hurt me.‘’

FBI agent Kevin Horan at yesterday’s hearing estimated that Ahmed is about 5 feet 2 and 110 pounds and that Kent is about 5 feet 10 and more than 200 pounds.

Horan said Kent alerted him earlier this month that Ahmed might soon return to the United States and confront him. Kent said that Tuesday night, as a colleague was driving him home, he saw Ahmed knocking on his front door.

His colleague drove him to a pay phone so he could call police, Kent said.

Kent’s wife, who was home alone, did not answer the door. Ahmed left before police arrived, but was arrested at a nearby motel.

Kemp yesterday said he would consider releasing Ahmed from jail if arrangements could be made to have her stay at a halfway house or with friends.

Ahmed did not testify yesterday, but as she was being led out of the courtroom she told a Dispatch reporter, "I want to get back to Pakistan. I hate this country. He’s not a good guy at all. I don’t want to marry him anymore.‘’

Kent declined to comment after the hearing.

According to Ohio Wesleyan’s Web site, Kent received a bachelor’s degree from the University of the Americas in Mexico City and master and doctorate degrees in Spanish from Harvard University. Before joining Ohio Wesleyan’s faculty in 1976, he taught four years at Harvard and seven years at Amherst College in Massachusetts.

Kent has been a visiting scholar at Columbia University in New York, held research fellowships with the National Endowment for the Humanities and the Ford Foundation, and has lectured at the Smithsonian Institute. In 1993, he received the Bishop Herbert Meritorious Teaching Award at Ohio Wesleyan.

oh my ... call me superficial or shallow,
but i can't get pass by the first fact ..
that
1- it was a girl
2- it was a pakistani girl

does it matter ?

I’d agree with Aphro. Whats the point of this post? Are we supposed to discuss all crime stories involving a Pakistani, or are you trying to discuss the issue of stalking per se? Or maybe you want to discuss the relationship between student-teacher or repercussions of a girl having an affair with a more aged married man?

What are you trying to discuss. Please make it more clear for the rest of us.

http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/smile.gif

Just a Interesting story , I mean it could be said that the guy let her on , or would most of instead accuse her of being a 'bad girl'
and yes being female and a Pakistani female makes the article 'interesting' considering how Pakisani boy's often go to lengths which would be defined as stalking in any other country ..in order to try and get the attention of a girl , the whole subject is I figure worth discussing ..

hmmmmmmm! Something not quite right with this story. I might be wrong but Wesleyan University is in West Virginia like 30 miles south of Morgantown and not in Ohio. I know as my X girl friend used to go there. But then again it might be some other school.

no the reason i wrote >> does it matter ? << is mainly cuz of the matter that not only is it a girl .... but a pakistani girl too.
and yeah, cuz of those 2 factors, the situation does make it a bit interesting.
i wouldnt' had been suprised if it was the stalker was a guy .. or, er, even a gora guy.
but i suppose that's just your stereotypes in a way .

i just wonder if ppl would just have ... a very different (bias) point of view in this particular case. that's all.

[This message has been edited by aphrodite (edited July 08, 2001).]

I think the stalker being a Pakistani girl made this a pretty interesting read. One of the toughts was that this type of behavior is not known in our women. Then, secondly, the publicity now sheds some light on Muslim women, in general. More fodder for the jokers.

I think the publicity of the story in local media would put a negative light on the whole Muslim population and, thus, I did not have a good gut feeling reading this story. I vote is to give the girl the maximum punishment the law allows. If the professor let her on, did she not have a mind of her own to think with? She knows she committed a crime, trespassed? on private property, threated someone with muder, accused someone libelously, etc.

I hope she gets the slammer where she can become someone else's wife and know what it's like to pressure someone into a relationship. Now, that would be awsome.

*>> Then, secondly, the publicity now sheds some light on Muslim women, in general. More fodder for the jokers.
..I hope she gets the slammer where she can become someone else's wife and know what it's like to pressure someone into a relationship. << *

see now that's what i was referring to ..... that we'd be harsher on criticising her . if it was a guy, it'd be just as much as a shame. equality for all, no ?

I think you guys are looking at this from an unnecessarily negative point of view. This lady was obviously pretty keen to convert the Professor to islam if she was prepared to burn his house down if he didn't comply.

Maybe she just took her religion too seriously?

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Originally posted by Mr Xtreme:
*Maybe she just took her religion too seriously? *
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Which explains why she had sexual relations with the man......ummm, yeah, right.

[quote]
Originally posted by aphrodite:
*...see now *that's what i was referring to ..... that we'd be harsher on criticising her . if it was a guy, it'd be just as much as a shame. equality for all, no ? **
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Right... The west does not care if the person is a Wo/man if that person's religion is Islam. They are both taken equally and used as an example to explain the rest of us to the populace.

**>>Kent testified that he was terrified of Ahmed and that in a long-distance phone conversation earlier this month told her, "Please don't hurt me.''

FBI agent Kevin Horan at yesterday's hearing estimated that Ahmed is about 5 feet 2 and 110 pounds and that Kent is about 5 feet 10 and more than 200 pounds.**

Makes you think. Is something fishy here?
By the way, whats the websource of this article (a link etc). I am sure you did not type it all out yourself. :)