I dont know by what stretch of imagination you call Indian and Pakistani generals of being from same ethnicity … maybe you can clarify what ethnicity means.
Now i can understand the " cup of tea" story in Pakistan forums as they have been fed these lies about " Indian attacks" for a long time …
But it is time people in Pakistan shoudl look beyond the rhetoric and understand and know how the army has been manipulating the country to stay in power … going back to 1965 war … here is something which was talked about recently by a retired air marshal in Pakistan … now corelate this to what is known in your history books and what is said about 65 war …
Nur Khan reminisces ’65 war -DAWN - National; September 6, 2005
Under his searching questions Gen Musa wilted and with a sheepish smile admitted that something was afoot. Nur Khan’s immediate reaction was that this would mean war. But, Gen Musa said you need not to worry as according to him Indians would not retaliate. Then he directed a still highly skeptical Nur Khan to Lt-Gen Akhtar Hasan Malik, GOC Kashmir, the man in-charge of “Operation Gibraltar” for further details. The long and short of his discussion with Gen Malik was, “don’t worry, because the plan to send in some 800,000 infiltrators inside the occupied territory to throw out the Indian troops with the help of the local population”, was so designed that the Indians would not be able retaliate and therefore the airforce need not get into war-time mode.
This was in July 1965 … war started in September 1965 !!!