is it right to do that…like checking their emails nd messages nd listening on the other side ov the phone nd stuff:o …if yes say why nd if no justify…
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No....I think its important that you respect the privacy of your children....Obviously you should keep an eye on them and stuff but going to the extent of checking their mail and listening to their conversations is not right. By doing that...it can give children the impression that you don't trust them...and its important for there to be trust in such an important relationship. If you don't trust your children...they may think WTH, our parents are suspicious of us anyway even if we aren't doing anything wrong so it could lead them to mess about or whatever.
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Trust is something earned, not given freely. And these days, its so much more important to ensure the safety of your own than it is to freely grant them their privacy. IMHO. Mine are young yet (6 and under) but I feel strongly about this. If they are good and upstanding then they will be granted privacy. If they are having troubles, its my duty as a parent to do whatever I can to discover what the problem is and how to correct it. If that means reading a diary or listening in on conversations, so be it. They will be told this and hopefully understand the priveleges they are granted or denied.
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I think if you're not peeping through bathroom door to see if your kid is wacking in the shower then you're OK.
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^ lol i agree
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Parents should "spy" on their kids but I hope to GOD mines don't spy on me.
All this prvacy shrivacy is bollocks, I mean if your kids are not upto anything dodgy what's the worry?
Like Roman said if you're going to spy on them choking the kukarr then you've gone tad bit too far but checking their emails/phone-convos is neccesary, especially nowadays with all pedos on the net.
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No....I think its important that you respect the privacy of your children....Obviously you should keep an eye on them and stuff but going to the extent of checking their mail and listening to their conversations is not right. By doing that...it can give children the impression that you don't trust them...and its important for there to be trust in such an important relationship. If you don't trust your children...they may think WTH, our parents are suspicious of us anyway even if we aren't doing anything wrong so it could lead them to mess about or whatever.
They don't need to know till their parents find something objectionale and then their parents have good reason to be suspicious of them.
So many kids' turn fcuked up because their parents turned a blind eye out of laziness/incompetence in the name of "respecting their privacy".
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In USA, every other day you hear a news that Police arrested a weirdo who showed up at a mall or a park or somewhere to meet a 12-13-14 year old girl whom he met in a chat room. Sometime the "girl" is a cop. Othertimes its a real girl whose parents probably decided to give the girl some privacy.
Two days ago they arrested a 50 year old guy who took a bus from Nevada to Arizona to meet a 14 year old girl whom he met on "Myspace.com".
Now if you are too much into respecting privacy of your kids, take computer and cell phone away from them. Kids dont know right from wrong. We should do our job as parents
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Plant a GPS unit on your kid without them knowing it and one on Gamma so you may keep you kids a safe distance away from him.
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Unless you can hear moaning noises coming from your childs bedroom who happens to be in there with a friend of the opposite sex, their privacy should be respected.
If however the above scenario does occur....knock the crap out of them and revoke all forms of privacy, even toilet going!
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depending upon the situation ..................... should be done to some extent + and right from the beginning , not just when they're in their teens + without letting yr kid know about that , cuzz if they'll come to know they'll be screwed , and loose faith in u ( i mean parent)........................ i think the best thing to do is keep track of kindda friends they have , b/c friends and their company matters a lot , also it's good if u've good relations with other parents whose kids tend to be in same circle as yr kid, this way u could get to know more about their wherebouts + mutual interests n acitivities
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what about wen u're like older...18, 19 or in ur 20'z??
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hmmmm
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*No…I think its important that you respect the privacy of your children…*.Obviously you should keep an eye on them and stuff but going to the extent of checking their mail and listening to their conversations is not right. By doing that…it can give children the impression that you don’t trust them…and its important for there to be trust in such an important relationship. If you don’t trust your children…they may think WTH, our parents are suspicious of us anyway even if we aren’t doing anything wrong so it could lead them to mess about or whatever.
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yeh bacho ki koon se privacy hote hai 
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no kids no spy :P
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of course I will!! However I will make sure they dont know that I am :D I dont see anything wrong with the occassional "checking up on them".
in this day in age...you have to know what's going on in your kids lives..to protect them and to keep that out of harms way...and for any parent who believes that a child will tell you everything is indeed one gullible parent!!
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And children of these days are spy themself they specially check what their parents do in their privacy.lol (dont take wrong plz) i mean they check what time parents are not busy and not doing anything and spending their time lonely lonely and they will say ha Mom you re not busy today can we go to Alton tower plz plz............. cuz they cant say it to dad cuz he wont be at home that time lol.
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yehhh its perfectly fiiiiiine…
desi parents are soo cool wid itt..
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