I have noticed that those of my friends that moved out of Pakistan on heir own, adjusted earlier and are doing better than those who were sponsored by their wives. One of the later was my room mate for 2 years, a very lively person. A year later he completely disappeared off the radar, stopped answering e-mail, and did not like to meet old friends. He is now getting out of hibernation after he was able to make his way through. Similar other examples in my class.
Wonder whats the reason.
Re: Spouse Sponsored or DIY Guys
Lack of motivation.
The ‘runn thru’ route is itself an example of that.
Re: Spouse Sponsored or DIY Guys
What was he doing for 2 yrs?
Re: Spouse Sponsored or DIY Guys
Never heard DIY for people before 
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I think answer is the process. When you take life at your own, you discover your self, and put
it on work. No one can do it for you.
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Second thing is when you take wife as companion you are relaxed and happy.
When you take her as help for first serious challenge you are about face in life, then you would act not like your self around her.
ok first one I know for sure. second is mostly assumption.
Re: Spouse Sponsored or DIY Guys
Hmmm,m