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The feeling’s mutual. :frowning: Try harder next time. No…don’t.

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okay!!

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lmao.. cut it out you two. group hug. :hug:

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Omg who is fighting?

To the OP: it doesn't matter if your bride is the same age as long as you guys connect :@:

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Ok. Can you please close this thread?

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no i cant :p

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Why?

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Thank you to all. I get enough advice, while rest of the members were trolling from main topic.
I am thankful to Sehar, Bless, and Niksik.

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All in good faith jee! It's a good thread, we will keep a watch.

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Would a Chichawatni desi opinion work? :p

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on a serious note .. age is but a meaningless number

if you are compatible with the girl and she's really nice ..i don't think being of the same age matters at all :)

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I thought its fold :hehe:

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What can be the cons of such a relationship? You can't mould her into what you want her to be?

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Well my life is now doomed, I'm a year older then my finace..

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I am not sure where the OP is asking for molding his wife, he is just asking for pros and cons ...

the biggest con is ... whether its politically correct to say that or not but guys maintain their reproductive health pretty much till very late in their life while women lose it in thier late 40's or 50's. That may also mean loosing sexual appetite. Having a younger wife keeps the home fire burning for longer time.

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I'm going to go a bit against the grain and say that I don't think the OP should be ridiculed for having such a concern (provided that he is not a troll). It's not common and at least has not been common until recently for a girl to not be younger than the guy she marries. So what is the harm in having concerns?

In general, I do think guys and girls of the same age have different maturity levels, at least until the early 20s. Not saying it always is like that, but it often is. Also, women *do *age faster than men. That's just how it is.

Personally, I don't mind marrying someone younger if we get along in our ways.

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Well duh a budhi won't run around caring for a dozen kids!!!

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Personally i wouldn't recommend that - just personal preference ... pretty much for the reason TLK stated

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There is nothing wrong in marrying someone your age or even older, lol! If you love each other then go for it. :p