spolied husband

just want to vent !
i love my husband very much. this past weekend on Saturday he got upset that i would not go to the movies with him. i tried explaining that i am not feeling well, we will some other day.. so the whole day Sunday he was very rude, but i did everything i was told from cooking to packing to his up coming trip. At night when he is in good mood he wants something. All i said was please explain why were you behaving the way you were. Did i ask for too much?
He started saying how i am drama queen, how i am not a good wife. I do everything for this person from being his driver, personal assistant, banking, take care of our daughter,:frowning: Iam just sad and hurt because i feel like he wants to show since he is bring in the money he has a right to say whatever he want whenever he wants. i am completing my master and not working right now which was mutual decision. Now he is away for 3 days and all kind of thoughts are running though my mind.

Why do most husbands its ok to say mean thing in a fight as soon as everything is ok wife should forget everything that was said?

Re: spolied husband

Aren't you showing him that he can be like that with you if you always tolerate it?

I'm NOT saying argue with him but letting him behave like that with you is giving out the message that it's acceptable imo

Re: spolied husband

It's ok .these days happens in a marriage.

You and your hubby will probably laugh it off once you patch up and moods are better.

Men can be such babies at time and they love the attention from their wives.

You said no for the cinema for fair reasons but your hubby took it to heart and overimagined that you do not want to spend time with him.

And now you are overimagining issues whilst he is acting mad.

Just enjoy your days while he is away... talk to him in a good and jolly mood and hopefully he will drop the childlish ego game.

Re: spolied husband

Why don’t you go pamper yourself while he is away for 3 whole days?

I don’t understand the issue here?

You do so much for him and now he is away…if I was you I’d be like PARTY TIME!

:omg:

Re: spolied husband

That what i am doing try to focus on myself and enjoying he seems to be ok too t

Re: spolied husband

Ok it seems macher gyah. Carry on being sweet and gentle with him. As soon as he falls asleep punch him across his face and then pretend your asleep. If he wakes up tell him he must of had a nightmare. If there are marks tell him he must of been bitten by some kind of insect. :gizzy:

Re: spolied husband

:smiley: :k: