Re: Spoiling Your Mood!
Should relationships be destroyed because the other person is not compensating in the manner we want them to? Let’s say for example a sibling or spouse finds it very difficult to say “sorry” …(which is the compensation you desire)…and doesn’t do so, would you end the relationship? Maybe that person tries to make up in other ways (be it attempts at conversation, helping you out, etc)…and that can be seen as their “jhukna.” It may not be jhukna in the way you imagined, but it’s their indirect way of doing so. You can take this into consideration and decide to meet them halfway by showing them that you’ve moved on…or you can choose to persist in having it your way and possibly hurt the relationship.
There are also people who find it easy to say sorry, but repeat their mistakes. How much weight does that carry? I think its important to be able to humble yourself and apologize, but what’s even more necessary is making a sincere effort to avoid the same mistakes in the future.