I really want to do everything in my power for my kids, shower them with love & attention as well as buy the whole world for them (which I can’t but still… you get what I mean). Sometimes, I go out of my way to do things for my daughter, then I think I shouldn’t, maybe I’m spoiling her. Then again I think why shouldn’t I… she’s my baby after all and she’s going to grow older soon and I will not be able to spoil her any more.
Example: My daughter had a pajama party in her class and we didn’t know since she has been home all week and she got all sad when she saw all the kids dressed up in their pajamas, so I went to the nearest Target in my lunch break and bought pajamas for her and went to school and gave them to her. She was ecstatic **but then I thought, maybe I shouldn’t have done that, it was not a big deal to not be in pajamas, right.
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I remember my dad using up his savings to buy me a computer when the PCs first came out just because I asked him to and he didn’t want to say no, that didn’t spoil me at all. So maybe buying my daughter all these toys and electronic gadgets is okay… I don’t know :hinna:
I want to know your opinions on where do you draw a line when it comes to doing things for your kids?
Priceless
It might not been a big deal to you but to her it was, and such things that u do for your kids is more important than buying a cool gadget. I bet she will remember this gesture of you all her life.