Re: Spoil them....
there's a saying ..."Spare the rod , Spoil the child ......."
NO , i'm not advocating hitting ur kids .... but i do strongly believe children should me made aware of the limits....
.......there is nothing more annoying than a child who thinks he can get his way throw throughing tantrums......I see a lot of parents nowadays blithely ignore their kids wrongdoings and let it slide with comments like "bacha hai..."
it is kids raised like that that turn out to be hellions as teenagers and even worse specimens as adults because they were never really taught what is right & wrong....and it is these very parents who later cry why their children don't respect them .......
I believe children should be taught from their early years about whats right & wrong and especially how to behave in public....
..it is what is taught at this age that is ingrained forever......