Re: How may kids you want to have?
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I find them too demanding, too time-consuming, too ungrateful, too... stupid until they are at least 7. I don't like thinking that my identity will be transformed, that one child will make me into a mother first and an individual with my own needs second. I don't like the thought of sacrificing anything or making compromises. And there is always the loss of control. I was a horror as a child and gave my parents much grief.
Its good that you are honest to yourself. I hope that you will stand firm on this decison and will not give in to demands of yor husband if he later does want to have kids, bcoz it will be dishonest on ur part if you conceive a kid despite knowing you cannot adjust yourself to child's needs.