Split debate-Spending thousands on a wedding dress

Well here I go again. Anyways, people living in Pakistan who can afford a 4,000 dollar jora usually are snobby and if they are not they do some type of dishonest work. I know this because my sisters friend who moved from Pakistan to America told us all about it and I asked my Mom and she said most of it was true. I mean, not all rich Pakistani people are bad, but most are dishonest. My sisters friend's dad had a chance to get rich by being promoted in his company but his boss told him he had to come to his pffice and meet his new team. When he went into the office they were all drinking and talking about some party where a "hot" gorl danced for them (all this in in Pk..tsk tsk) I am no one to judge but they pushed it when they told my friends sisters dad to drink a glass of alcohol. When he refused they told him again and again to do it then they said "Kya yeh promotion nahi chahiye?" And when he said not if he had to drink alcohol, they kicked him out of the office and told him he was ruide for not accepting! Rude for upholding morals and being a true Muslim. Khair, he is now in the US thanks to his bro and a better person than those in that ofice in PK. In my opinion, if you pay 4,000 dollars for an outfit you could be putting that money to better use by buying something that will get more use than a dress most girls wear only once or twice. Also, the money goes to some designer who will get richer and think they are worth it. I would use 4,000 dollars to get myself a down payment on a house I plan to live in for atleast 8 or more years and a down payment on a car. Just my opinion..