Re: Spiritual Leader ya Pir Sahib.
why ask why ask99?
Mirch- my view is real simple. We have mentors at work, advisors at school, coaches at sports, trainers at gyms, many people use the advise of nutritionists for health, counselors for life.
So to me having a spiritual/religious coach/guide/advisor/mentor/teacher is not an issue. Obviously the person has to be qualified and the right fit.