sadzz- I have so many people around me who glves me muft mashwara that I should quit my job and spend all my time with her and saying
“akhir bachay ko maa ki tawajo ki zaroorat hoti hai” as if they know better for my child than I do. Just ignore them !
See the way I see things is that as your daughter will grow and will advance in her studies she will get more and more busy and she will spend more and more time in her schools , library & group studies etc. So the initial 4-6 years are the one when kids have alot of time in their hands and I am sure if mothers try we can give our children best attention in the time available in our hands. To me I would rather struggle and work hard in her initial years and be able to provide for her better education and living then to quit everything for first few years and then suffer later on.
The above is just my perspective I know many people would disagree with me but we all have very different sets of problems and opportunities in hand. No body’s life is PERFECT what we need to do is to make good use of the things will have to make our lives better.
Only a PARENT can know and decide what is best for his/her child so trust yourself.